“How do we put everything in this Playbook into one plan?”
The Short Answer: Turn recruiting from an overwhelming cloud into a series of manageable weekly actions: Know the athlete. Know the level. Build the list. Get visible. Communicate. Evaluate. Compare. Decide.
If I could go back to the beginning, I would remind myself that the process does not need to be perfect. We started with one sport (soccer) and one rigid picture of what college athletics should look like. The journey changed to track and field. Our daughter changed. Her priorities changed. That was not failure—that was learning. Guide your athlete. Be realistic with them. Help them cast a wide net and keep an open mind. But trust them enough to let the dream belong to them.
The 4-Week (30-Day) Recruiting Action Plan (Worksheet 15)
| Week | Core Focus | Specific Family & Athlete Actions |
|---|---|---|
| Week 1 | LEARN & AUDIT | Update your Athlete Self-Assessment, 10-Second Recruiting Profile, and Highlight Video link. Confirm NCAA Eligibility Center registration and 16 core-course progress. |
| Week 2 | PLAN & CONNECT | Build or refresh your 3-Bucket School List (Dream, Strong Fit, Explore Further). Send personalized first-contact emails using WHO + RESULTS + WHY US + NEXT STEP and log them in your Coach Contact Tracker. |
| Week 3 | FOLLOW UP & RESEARCH | Send meaningful performance, PR, or schedule updates to active coaches. Research team culture, academic major compatibility, and estimated net family cost for your top programs. |
| Week 4 | EVALUATE & ADJUST | Review coach responses, score any campus visits or coach calls using the Scorecards, adjust your school list buckets, and choose your next three recruiting actions. |
For Parents vs. For Student-Athletes
- For Parents: Support the dream without making it your dream. Be honest about your athlete’s level. Help with organization, travel, money, and steady perspective. As your athlete gets older, move from manager to adviser.
- For Student-Athletes: Own your communication. Be respectful. Do your research. Keep your academics strong. Continue developing. Pay attention to how people on a team make you feel—and remember that the goal is not to impress everyone; it is to find the right opportunity.
Some coaches will answer and some will not. Some schools that look perfect at the start will fall off the list, and schools you never expected may become serious possibilities. That is how recruiting actually works.
The win is not getting recruited. The win is finding the right fit.
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Companion Printable Sheet: Worksheet 15: 30-Day Recruiting Action Plan & Final Decision Scorecard
Chapter 20 Frequently Asked Questions
What is the single most important takeaway from The College Recruiting Playbook?
Guide your athlete's dream—don't replace it with your own. Cast a wide net, lead with verified facts, look beyond the division logo to team culture and daily life, compare true out-of-pocket net cost, and let the athlete own the final choice.
Where can I download all 20 chapters and all 15 printable worksheets in one place?
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Helpful Family Recruiting Gear for Chapter 20
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Keep printed Playbook worksheets, school lists, and campus visit scorecards organized in one place.
Smartphone Tripod for Recruiting Videos & Training Clips
Capture steady, coach-ready game and training footage without camera shake.
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